Travelling to Israel: Tales of Serendipity and Human Connection

Embarking from Montreal to Jerusalem is more than just a physical experience; it’s profoundly emotional and spiritual. Travel has a way of unravelling the distance between places and the borders between people. As I touched down in Israel on March 2nd, 2023, from the bustling airplane cabin to the sacred streets of Jerusalem, my travels unfolded, weaving tales of serendipity and human connection. With every moment, I etched a chapter in the chronicles of my travel encounters,

The adventure began on the flight. I was seated beside a young Ukrainian man from Odesa, a city that has become synonymous with resilience in recent times. As he shared his story, I was struck by the sheer determination it took for him to navigate the challenges of obtaining a work transfer and crossing borders during such a tumultuous period. His visit to his cousins in Tel Aviv was more than just a family reunion; it was a testament to his spirit. As we shared the space of that airplane cabin, I realized how travel can compress time and space, bringing together people from different walks of life, each with their own unique journey.

Next to us sat a woman, deeply engrossed in a well-worn Bible. I couldn’t help but wonder about her story and what brought her on this journey. When she finally looked up, we struck up a conversation. She was from Switzerland, and her enthusiasm for experiencing the places mentioned in the Bible was infectious. I offered suggestions for her travels, excited to share a piece of the land I had come to know and love. By the end of our conversation, she had invited me to visit her in Switzerland. What started as a simple chat turned into a warm connection, leading to a shared meal in Jerusalem a week later—a reminder that sometimes, the most meaningful connections are those we never see coming.

On the communal Sherut taxi, I sat beside an American woman with a baby on her lap. She was returning from a wedding in Montreal, a city that suddenly felt much closer in the warmth of our shared experience. Her husband, a teacher at a Yeshiva in Jerusalem, was waiting for her, and I couldn’t help but feel a sense of camaraderie—two women connected by our ties to this city, yet from such different backgrounds.

On the other side was Orit Elgavi-Hershler, an Israeli neurobiologist and educator who had just published her book, “Neuropedagogia: Where Souls and Education Meet.”

Neuropedagogia Where souls and education meet

Neuropedagogia: Where souls and education meet

Her passion for her work, especially on the latest methods for addressing autism and schizophrenia, was palpable. We peppered her with questions, and I left that ride feeling richer for having met her, grateful for the serendipity that placed us in that taxi together.

But the most remarkable moment came when I stepped off the Sherut, burdened with two oversized suitcases and two hefty carry-ons. As I stood on the narrow sidewalk, trying to figure out my next move, a woman suddenly stopped her car and parked right in front of me. Without hesitation, she got out and offered to help with my luggage. It was such a simple gesture, but in that moment, it felt profound. The kindness catches you off guard, making you realize how deeply connected we all are, even to strangers. It was the perfect welcome to my new apartment in Jerusalem, a city that has always felt like a second home to me.

As I reflect on these moments—each unexpected, each filled with sincerity—I am reminded of why I love to travel. It’s not just about the destinations or the landscapes; it’s about the people we meet along the way and the connections that turn a journey into a story worth telling.

A Season of Miracles and Light

The holiday season always brings to mind the miracles surrounding us, even in the everyday things we might take for granted. Think about it: the electricity that powers our homes, the roads and cars that connect us to the world, the wonder of flight that lets us soar across continents, and the films and the internet that bring stories and people into our lives. And then there’s love—the most profound miracle of all—grounding us in peace and connection, whether at home or across the globe.

Reflecting on these modern miracles, I am reminded that they did not happen overnight. Behind every innovation were struggles, doubts, and an unwavering belief in the impossible. Perhaps that is why the miracles in my life feel even more profound—they came with challenges, making them all the more meaningful.

My Recent Miracles

Miracle 1: Finding a Home in Jerusalem

Israel has always felt like a second home to me, where my roots are intertwined with my ancestors’ rich history and faith. Over the years, my trips to Israel have transformed into spiritual journeys shaped by my studies at Shiviti and Simhat Shlomo—two Jewish institutions.

On my last trip in April, I searched for a place to live. This task proved challenging, especially with my limited budget and Jerusalem’s tricky rental market. There were moments of doubt when I wondered if I’d ever find a place that felt right. Then, I discovered a small, affordable apartment—not luxurious, but in a neighbourhood I love.

I vividly remember stepping into that apartment for the first time. The cool air carried a faint scent of jasmine from a nearby garden. The space was modest yet filled with natural light, and as I stood in the empty rooms, a quiet sense of peace enveloped me, almost as if the city were welcoming me home. The apartment is tranquil, just a short walk from the lively Emek Refaim Street, with its bustling shops, cafes, and the cinemas I enjoy.

Returning to Israel right after the Jewish Fall Holidays, I was determined to make this place my own. Over the next five weeks, I poured my heart into transforming that small apartment into a home. Each step—arranging furniture and hanging mezuzot on the doorways—deepened my connection to this land.

Miracle 2: Rediscovering the Streets of Jerusalem

Decades ago, as a student at Hebrew University, I wandered the streets of Jerusalem on foot. Back then, the city had a quieter, more intimate feel, and its narrow lanes seemed to whisper secrets from the past.

During my recent visits, I was struck by Jerusalem’s transformation. The quiet, small city I once knew has become a lively, modern metropolis. Buses, trains, and highways now integrate seamlessly into its historic surroundings, creating a vibrant atmosphere filled with traffic, construction, and the lively chatter of a diverse crowd.

Before the Six-Day War in 1967, Jews could not access the Western Wall or the Old City. Today, these sacred sites are open to everyone, and the city has expanded in ways I never imagined. Yaffo Street, once a simple route to the Old City, now features a sleek tram—a surreal contrast of modern elegance against ancient stones. Ben Yehuda Street, where I used to stroll as a student, has transformed into a bustling pedestrian mall filled with cafes, shops, and the constant buzz of city life.

I was particularly fascinated by Kikar Hamusika, a lovely square near Ben Yehuda that I stumbled upon for the first time. Drawn by the enchanting music of a violinist, I found myself surrounded by people chatting and laughing at nearby tables. In that moment, I felt the vibrant energy of the city—deeply connected to its history yet incredibly alive in the present.

Miracle 3: Reconnecting with Old Friends

The day after I arrived in Jerusalem, my brother-in-law, Shragai, called to tell me about a gathering at Barbara Friedman’s apartment. Barbara, a fellow Montrealer, had invited us to catch up, making it the perfect way to reintegrate into the city’s social scene.

As I entered her apartment, the scent of freshly baked challah enveloped me, along with the warmth of familiar faces and old friendships. One friend had even brought a guitar, and before long, we found ourselves singing together, including a delightful children’s song about Noah’s Ark. It was a sweet moment, especially since it was the Friday before Shabbat, a time for reflecting on the stories of our ancestors and the lessons they teach.

Surrounded by music and laughter, our lasting connections felt even more meaningful despite the years and distance that kept us apart. It was a beautiful reminder that some bonds, like tree roots, grow stronger over time, keeping us tied to the people and places we hold dear.

Miracle 4: Immersing in the European Cantors Convention in Budapest

On November 1st, I travelled from Israel to Hungary to attend the European Cantors Convention at the Rumbach Street Synagogue in Budapest. This place is special to me as it’s where my parents married during World War II. Being in that space, filled with personal and communal history, was incredibly moving.

The synagogue itself was a marvel—its walls steeped in history, yet echoing with the voices of the present. To capture the essence of the convention, I hired a local cameraman to document the event. It was an opportunity to listen to incredible cantors like Benny Meisels, Deborah Katcko-Grey, and Leah Frey Rabiner and reconnect with my family’s roots. With my cousins, I explored Budapest and uncovered our shared history, making this trip about more than just music—it was a journey into my family’s past.

Standing in the synagogue where my parents once stood, under the same ceiling that had witnessed so much joy and sorrow, I felt a deep connection to them and the generations before them. These interviews and experiences are the foundation of a documentary I’m working on about the convention. The event was filled with meaningful discussions and beautiful music; I can’t wait to share that with others.

Miracle 5: Rediscovering Our Family Heritage in Hungary

I had the opportunity to travel with Rachel, Tehila, her daughter, and Effy Fadida from Israel to the ancestral lands of our Hungarian Jewish forefathers. During our visit, we explored places like Tokay, Szabolcs, Kereztur, and Debrecen, accompanied by locals who helped us understand our family’s deep connections to these locations.

In Kereztur, we paid our respects at the resting place of Reb Shiele, a revered Hassidic Rebbe, and enjoyed kosher meals that felt like a link to our ancestors. The air was filled with the aroma of traditional Hungarian dishes, and as we gathered, the conversation flowed easily, full of stories of the past and hopes for the future. It was a meaningful experience to be in these places that still hold the echoes of our heritage, connecting us to a legacy of faith and community.

Our time in Tokay and Debrecen was remarkable. Visiting the Rebbe’s resting place at night felt almost dreamlike—a moment of quiet reflection after a day of exploring our roots. The stillness of the night, broken only by the rustling of leaves and the distant sound of a river, created an atmosphere of calm and peace. In Debrecen, we connected with relatives who survived the horrors of the Holocaust, their resilience serving as a strong reminder of the strength of our people. Our experience was even documented in the Hungarian Jewish Debrecen Community Bulletin, where I translated our visit into English.

Miracle 6: The Resilience of My Christmas Cactus

When I returned to Montreal, I was greeted by a small but significant miracle—my Christmas cactus was in full bloom. It had been cared for by a talented local plant expert while I was away, and seeing those bright blossoms felt like a symbol of hope and resilience. The vibrant pink flowers, standing against the gray of winter, were a reminder that life persists, even in the harshest conditions.

In a world that often feels dark, small lights—whether a blooming plant, a cherished friendship, or a connection to our heritage—remind us of the miracles surrounding us. Like the Maccabees, who overcame great odds, we can find strength and light in the most unexpected places.

As we move through this holiday season, may our homes be filled with peace, joy, and the warmth of these everyday miracles.

Am Yisrael chai—The People of Israel are alive! Am Yisrael thrives! And when Am Yisrael thrives, the world thrives!

Wishing you all a happy and meaningful holiday season.

With warmth,
Abigail

The Journey of Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz

Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz’s transition from his role as the spiritual leader of Congregation Tifereth Beth David Jerusalem (TBDJ) in Montreal to his current position at Congregation Kehilath Jeshurun (KJ) on Manhattan’s Upper East Side marks a significant chapter in his personal and spiritual journey. This move reflects a change in location and an evolution in his mission to inspire and guide his community.

Rabbi Steinmetz has delivered powerful sermons that resonate deeply with his audience throughout his tenure at both congregations. His addresses cover many topics that foster self-awareness, resilience, and a deeper understanding of our Jewish heritage. For instance, in “When a Fossil Comes to Life,” he artfully connects historical events to personal growth, urging us to embrace change and transformation. His discourse on “Never Underestimate Hatred” serves as a timely reminder of the importance of confronting prejudice. At the same time, “Yizkor and Yom HaShoah: Between Past and Present” draws vital connections between memory and communal responsibility.

As someone who has had the privilege of archiving his teachings, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound wisdom in his words. I have documented his six-minute talks over the years, which concisely and engagingly encapsulate his insights. Some of these talks include:

Rabbi Steinmetz’s transition from TBDJ to KJ has been marked by profound insights and impactful discourses that have inspired his community. His commitment to guiding others through Jewish history and contemporary challenges reflects a deep dedication to meaningful dialogue.

The diverse topics he addresses have resonated with many individuals. Have you felt the impact of Rabbi Steinmetz’s teachings? They serve as a beacon of hope, embodying a legacy of compassion and truth. His teachings leave a lasting impression, encouraging appreciation and reflection within the community. Rabbi Steinmetz’s journey illustrates how the power of words can inspire change and strengthen our connection to faith and community.

Sholem Aleichem: Echoes of Yiddish Culture

Last night, I watched the insightful documentary Sholem Aleichem: Laughing in the Darkness at Cinema du Parc. This film delves into the life and legacy of Sholem Aleichem, a writer whose works vividly portray Jewish life in Eastern Europe during a time of significant change.

The Language of Heritage

Sholem Aleichem (1859-1916) chose to write in Yiddish, a language shaped by Hebrew, German, and Slavic influences. For centuries, Yiddish was a cornerstone of Jewish identity. However, as Jews increasingly adopted the languages of their new countries, Yiddish began to decline. Aleichem’s choice to write in Yiddish was a crucial effort to preserve this important aspect of Jewish culture.

Life in the Shtetl

Aleichem’s stories brought to life the world of the Shtetle—a small Jewish town—through characters like Tevye the Milkman and Motl the Cantor’s son. These characters inspired the renowned musical Fiddler on the Roof. His stories not only captured the joys and struggles of shtetl life but also played a role in keeping Yiddish culture vibrant, even amidst the challenges of the Holocaust.

Historical Context

The film also sheds light on the difficult realities faced by Jews in Poland and Russia, including the anti-Jewish riots that began in 1881. Before this period, Jews and others lived together relatively peacefully. However, the assassination of the Czar in 1881 triggered a wave of violence, culminating in the pogroms of 1905-06. Sholem Aleichem lived through these troubling times, including the 1905 pogrom in Kyiv, during which he and his family were forced to hide in a hotel for three days. This personal ordeal profoundly affected him and is a poignant reminder of the era’s turbulence.

The documentary links these historical events to the later horrors of the Holocaust and highlights how the insufficient response to violence against Jewish communities foreshadowed further tragedies. The Nazi regime observed the world’s indifference to these early acts of brutality and adopted similar tactics, leading to the orchestrated destruction of Jews during the Holocaust. This pattern of state-sponsored violence echoes through history, with examples seen in places like Syria, the Soviet Union, North Korea, and Iran.

Preserving Yiddish Culture

Watching Sholem Aleichem: Laughing in the Darkness deepened my appreciation for preserving Yiddish and its cultural heritage. This theme resonates with my project, Yiddish: A Tale of Survival, which explores the state of Yiddish three generations after the Holocaust. My documentary highlights the crucial need to keep this language and its rich cultural traditions alive.

Reflecting on the Past

After the movie ended, I thought about the enduring influence of Yiddish culture and the meaningful lessons we can learn from history about standing up to injustice. Laughing in the Darkness honours Sholem Aleichem’s legacy and reminds us to always remember the past and work towards a brighter future.