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Tradition and Hope: Passover in Uncertain Times

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As I gathered with my family for this year’s Passover Seder, the weight of our shared history felt particularly heavy. The Haggadah’s refrain, “In every generation, they rise against us, to annihilate us, but the Holy One, Blessed Be, saves us from their hand,” resonated more deeply than ever.

My nephew, Rabbi Yair Silverman, highlighted another crucial aspect: “In every generation, one is obligated to see himself as though he, personally, had come out of Egypt.” For my parents, Holocaust survivors from Hungary, this sentiment was a constant presence. Today, I reflect on how our current uncertainties—our conflicts, our struggles for safety—might be our generation’s “narrow straits”—our Mitzrayim.

In Israel, Passover transcends being merely a holiday; it becomes a collective experience. Nearly all Jewish Israelis—95%—scrub their homes of hametz (leavened bread) and unite for a Seder, regardless of their level of religious observance. This shared ritual is a testament to our common heritage, much like the 97% who uphold the practice of circumcising newborn boys. These traditions are not just religious observances; they are reminders of our collective identity in the face of changing times.

Observance and Celebration

At the heart of the Seder is the retelling of our story—our escape from Egyptian slavery. We savour symbolic foods: matza, the unleavened bread, and bitter herbs, or maror, representing both our suffering and our liberation.

Passover spans seven days (eight outside Israel) and begins and ends with days akin to the Sabbath. Work halts, schools close, and shops shut their doors. The intermediate days are semi-festive; while many shops and eateries stay open, schools and workplaces often pause. This period becomes a time for leisure and connection, with families venturing into the countryside, visiting museums, and enjoying complimentary attractions.

Traditionally, my family would escape to the Dead Sea or Northern Galilee during this time. However, just as every generation has challenges, this year was different. Amid the ongoing conflict with Hamas and Hezbollah, safety concerns prompted us to stay closer to home. Instead, we spent a few days by the Tel Aviv beach, where we encountered displaced families whose struggles are often overshadowed by the broader narrative.

Life Amidst Conflict

Despite the turmoil, life on Tel Aviv’s beaches carried on. People walked, jogged, and enjoyed the sea. Families played in the sand, couples strolled hand in hand, and children laughed in the waves. This scene served as a reminder that life and resilience continue, even in the face of persistent threats.

Yet, the shadow looms large. Over 130 Israeli citizens remain captive in Gaza’s underground tunnels—a grim reminder of the high stakes we face. As a nation, we continue to pray for their release and peace. While the threat of terrorism is ever-present, so is our unwavering belief in Israel’s future.

Ancient Prophecies and Contemporary Realities

In uncertain times, many people find comfort in ancient wisdom. Recently, I came across a video circulating on social media that featured a Talmudic passage predicting a future where world leaders would be in conflict, often with Israel caught in the middle. Yet, the video also conveyed a hopeful vision of Israel’s redemption—free from suffering and turmoil. This perspective inspired me, suggesting that even amid the chaos, a greater plan might unfold.

As Israel continues to be a major topic in global conversations, we have a unique opportunity to promote messages of peace and unity. These ancient prophecies remind us that our stories are interconnected, regardless of our backgrounds. I hope for a day when those visions become a reality—when peace prevails and nations unite in harmony. It’s a dream we can all share.

The Weight of a Simple Question

As we navigate these uncertain times, one question captures the collective mood with striking clarity. For a glimpse into how the everyday mood in Israel has been shaped by current events, a passage from a Times of Israel article sums it up nicely:

“As we approach the seder, the night of many questions, I am struck by the one question that has haunted the last six months. It has choked us for air, narrowed the passage of the esophagus, magnified the racing beats of the heart, made the dreaded lump of the gut ever heavier and left the most articulate dumbfounded. A simple question. A frequent and ordinary one. Suddenly unbearable.

‘How are you?’

In Israel, this baseline greeting of civil society has become the mourner’s mirror, frightful to look into. When trying for an authentic answer, one is left to confront themselves, as with the forceful wet slap of a wave that unsettles the balance of our precarious footing.

With the shock and trauma of grief, horror of the unknown, and fear of what is yet to come, one popular response has emerged. The beloved poet Haim Gouri, depicting the challenges of social etiquette during an entirely different time in his poem Bakasha- Request ‘שלומי כשלום עמי’ ‘I am as my nation is.’ This reply deflects but also expresses the challenges of the moment from within an awareness of our social context. The blurred borders of our personal and communal identities at once horrify and console. I feel as my neighbor and nation feels. As such, I am not alone.”

Ancient texts continue to speak to us, especially in times like these. They remind us that despite the turmoil, we are part of a larger narrative—guided by divine providence and carrying an enduring destiny for the Jewish people. As the world focuses on Israel, we bear the responsibility to share our timeless message of peace and unity.

Ultimately, the fulfillment of these ancient prophecies is within our grasp. We must nurture hope and strive for a future where peace takes root and nations turn their weapons into tools for growth and brotherhood. Until that day arrives, we hold fast to our traditions and draw strength from our resilience, trusting that together, we will navigate these uncertain times and emerge stronger.

 

Purim: Turning Trials into Triumphs

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As we approach the Jewish holiday of Purim this Sunday, it’s a great time to reflect on its deeper meaning—not just for Jews but anyone who values courage, justice, and the power of standing up for what is right.

Purim’s Story of Resilience

Purim is a celebration of survival and resilience in the face of adversity. As the Book of Esther recounts, the story is a dramatic tale of unexpected twists, courage, and ultimate redemption. It tells how Esther, a young Jewish woman who became queen, and her cousin Mordechai worked together to thwart a plot by Haman, an influential advisor who sought to annihilate the Jewish people in the Persian Empire.

For many, Purim is a time of joy, marked by wearing costumes, sharing festive meals, and embracing the tradition of “drinking until one cannot discern between the wicked Haman and the righteous Mordechai.” But beyond the festivities, Purim is a “holiday of reversals”—a moment to think deeply about the nature of good and evil and how quickly they can swap places depending on perspective and circumstance.

Historically, the events of Purim occurred in 369 BCE during the reign of King Achashverosh. Haman’s personal vendetta against Mordechai spiralled into a plan to destroy the entire Jewish population of the empire. Yet, Esther’s bravery and Mordechai’s wisdom turned the tables, leading to Haman’s downfall. The story is a powerful reminder of how courage and unity can overcome hatred and injustice.

Lessons from Esther’s Story for Today’s World

The story of Esther isn’t just a Jewish story—it’s a human story. Yoram Hazony’s book, God and Politics in Esther, offers a fresh take on this ancient narrative, showing how the political intrigue and power struggles of Esther’s time still resonate today. Hazony’s insights remind us that conflicts often begin with personal grudges or misunderstandings that grow into something more significant. This pattern is repeated throughout history in various cultures and contexts.

In today’s world, Esther’s story reminds us of the importance of standing up against misrepresentation and prejudice. Just as Esther faced false accusations and threats, many groups today find themselves mischaracterized or unfairly targeted. This can happen in political debates, media portrayals, or everyday interactions where misunderstandings turn into divisions.

Echoes of Esther: Recognizing and Challenging Distorted Narratives

One of Purim’s most relevant aspects is its warning about the danger of distorted narratives. Esther’s story highlights how misinformation can fuel conflict and hatred—an issue that remains all too real today. Whether we are talking about historical events or modern-day politics, the distortion of truth has a profound impact.

Take, for example, the modern conflicts involving Israel. The narrative surrounding Israel is often charged and complex, shaped by deeply rooted histories and contemporary struggles. Just as Esther’s people faced existential threats and were misrepresented while defending themselves, Israel today often faces biased portrayals in some media and international forums.

However, this issue isn’t unique to Israel. Misunderstandings and distorted narratives affect many communities worldwide. Whether it’s misinformation about refugees, ethnic minorities, or religious groups, these skewed perspectives can lead to real-world consequences, from prejudice to violence. By learning from the story of Purim, we can better understand the importance of questioning biases and advocating for more balanced narratives.

Lessons for a More Just World

Purim teaches us that resilience, courage, and unity are vital to overcoming adversity. These lessons are universal. In a world where it’s easy to fall into “us versus them” mentalities, Esther’s story encourages us to look beyond our immediate fears and biases and to act with compassion and wisdom.

As we celebrate Purim, whether you are Jewish or not, let’s take this opportunity to reflect on how we can stand up against injustice in our own lives. Let’s draw inspiration from Esther’s bravery and Mordechai’s commitment to their people and work towards a world where all communities can live with dignity, safety, and mutual respect.

May this holiday inspire us all—no matter our background—to stand firm in adversity, seek truth, and work towards a more just and peaceful future. Here’s to celebrating with joy, reflection, and a renewed commitment to building bridges rather than walls.

For more insights into Purim and its relevance today, feel free to explore my previous posts: What Can Purim Teach Us Today?, Jerusalem’s Unique Purim Celebration: A Blend of Festivity and Tradition, and CIJR Colloquium: The Iranian Question & Purim’s Lessons.

Footnotes:

  1. Marcus, Yosef. “The Megillah in English.” Kehot Publication Society. https://www.chabad.org/holidays/purim/article_cdo/aid/109275/jewish/In-English.htm.

 

Confronting Antisemitism in Canada and Beyond

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The events of October 7 in Israel are etched in my memory. I was in Jerusalem when Hamas, the governing authority in Gaza, launched an attack that breached the border and plunged nearby communities into chaos. The violence was horrific, resulting in the abduction of over 230 hostages—men, women, and children of all ages. Amid this turmoil, I witnessed the remarkable resilience of ordinary Israeli citizens and local police who bravely confronted the attackers, saving lives before the IDF (Israeli Defense Forces) arrived. Their courage was a powerful reminder of the strength of the human spirit in the face of unimaginable adversity.

Upon my return to Canada, I attended a conference in Ottawa organized by the Centre for Israel and Jewish Affairs (CIJA) on October 16 and 17. Scheduled initially long before the outbreak of war, the gathering took on new urgency in light of recent events. With over 1,500 attendees—including students, professionals, law enforcement officers, and educators—the conference focused on the alarming resurgence of antisemitism in Canada, particularly as it spreads through social media. Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and Opposition Leader Pierre Poilievre emphasized that fighting antisemitism is not just a Jewish issue; it’s a Canadian one that affects us all.

The personal stories shared during the conference were impactful. One teacher from the Ottawa Public School System recounted the bullying faced by young Jewish students, underscoring that antisemitism is not a distant problem; it’s occurring right here in our communities. The conference’s message was clear: “Silence is collusion.” We cannot allow antisemitism to spread unchecked.

After hearing these powerful dialogues, I had the opportunity to meet with Members of Parliament, including Sherry Romanado and Brad Redekopp. These formalities and genuine, open exchanges highlighted the potential for real, collaborative action.

However, the environment remains complex. As we exited the conference hall, we encountered a Palestinian protest outside. This moment highlighted the need for dialogue and understanding between communities, reminding us that the paths to peace and justice intersect unexpectedly.

Resilience and Unity: How the Jewish Community Responds

While the conference underscored the urgent need for action in Canada, it also highlighted the enduring resilience of the Jewish people, both in Israel and the diaspora. Despite centuries of exile, Jewish communities worldwide have stood together through adversity, caring for the vulnerable among us. In Montreal, the Federation-CJA continues this tradition, working tirelessly to support those in need, particularly during times of crisis. This year’s fundraising campaign is particularly urgent, focusing on raising funds for the war effort in Israel.

In 2020, Ishai Ribo captured this sentiment in his rendition of “Vehi She’amda,” reminding us that despite those who have sought to harm us, we have always endured. Our traditions, rooted in Torah study and Jewish values, anchor us through good times and bad. This dedication to Jewish practice unites us in our efforts to support Israel, facing existential threats—whether against Hamas, Hezbollah, Iran, or the growing threats of antisemitism in our backyards.

 

Antisemitism is not a new phenomenon; it’s a persistent thread woven throughout history. As we are reminded during Passover, “Through the ages, many have risen to destroy us. But the Holy One, Blessed Be He, always saves us from their hand!” This message resonates deeply, especially during crises.

Moving Forward with Hope and Action

In today’s world, with its constant barrage of conflict and suffering, it’s easy to feel helpless. Yet, we must remember that we all have the power to make a difference. Whether standing up against injustice or supporting someone in need, our actions, however small, matter. Moments of kindness can transform situations, reminding us of our shared humanity and responsibility to improve the world for everyone.

When we come together as a community, our impact is amplified. Despite our differences, we share a common goal: to create a world where everyone can live free from persecution. Our tradition teaches us to pray for “the lion to lie down with the lamb,” envisioning a time of peace where the strong and weak coexist harmoniously. This hope extends beyond the Jewish community; it is a vision for everyone.

As we fervently pray for the swift and safe return of the hostages taken by Hamas on October 7—hashtag ba’agala uvizman karat—let us strive for a future where our collective efforts, resilience, and unity lead to a world free from hatred and conflict.

 

A Season of Miracles and Light

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The holiday season always brings to mind the miracles surrounding us, even in the everyday things we might take for granted. Think about it: the electricity that powers our homes, the roads and cars that connect us to the world, the wonder of flight that lets us soar across continents, and the films and the internet that bring stories and people into our lives. And then there’s love—the most profound miracle of all—grounding us in peace and connection, whether at home or across the globe.

Reflecting on these modern miracles, I am reminded that they did not happen overnight. Behind every innovation were struggles, doubts, and an unwavering belief in the impossible. Perhaps that is why the miracles in my life feel even more profound—they came with challenges, making them all the more meaningful.

My Recent Miracles

Miracle 1: Finding a Home in Jerusalem

Israel has always felt like a second home to me, where my roots are intertwined with my ancestors’ rich history and faith. Over the years, my trips to Israel have transformed into spiritual journeys shaped by my studies at Shiviti and Simhat Shlomo—two Jewish institutions.

On my last trip in April, I searched for a place to live. This task proved challenging, especially with my limited budget and Jerusalem’s tricky rental market. There were moments of doubt when I wondered if I’d ever find a place that felt right. Then, I discovered a small, affordable apartment—not luxurious, but in a neighbourhood I love.

I vividly remember stepping into that apartment for the first time. The cool air carried a faint scent of jasmine from a nearby garden. The space was modest yet filled with natural light, and as I stood in the empty rooms, a quiet sense of peace enveloped me, almost as if the city were welcoming me home. The apartment is tranquil, just a short walk from the lively Emek Refaim Street, with its bustling shops, cafes, and the cinemas I enjoy.

Returning to Israel right after the Jewish Fall Holidays, I was determined to make this place my own. Over the next five weeks, I poured my heart into transforming that small apartment into a home. Each step—arranging furniture and hanging mezuzot on the doorways—deepened my connection to this land.

Miracle 2: Rediscovering the Streets of Jerusalem

Decades ago, as a student at Hebrew University, I wandered the streets of Jerusalem on foot. Back then, the city had a quieter, more intimate feel, and its narrow lanes seemed to whisper secrets from the past.

During my recent visits, I was struck by Jerusalem’s transformation. The quiet, small city I once knew has become a lively, modern metropolis. Buses, trains, and highways now integrate seamlessly into its historic surroundings, creating a vibrant atmosphere filled with traffic, construction, and the lively chatter of a diverse crowd.

Before the Six-Day War in 1967, Jews could not access the Western Wall or the Old City. Today, these sacred sites are open to everyone, and the city has expanded in ways I never imagined. Yaffo Street, once a simple route to the Old City, now features a sleek tram—a surreal contrast of modern elegance against ancient stones. Ben Yehuda Street, where I used to stroll as a student, has transformed into a bustling pedestrian mall filled with cafes, shops, and the constant buzz of city life.

I was particularly fascinated by Kikar Hamusika, a lovely square near Ben Yehuda that I stumbled upon for the first time. Drawn by the enchanting music of a violinist, I found myself surrounded by people chatting and laughing at nearby tables. In that moment, I felt the vibrant energy of the city—deeply connected to its history yet incredibly alive in the present.

Miracle 3: Reconnecting with Old Friends

The day after I arrived in Jerusalem, my brother-in-law, Shragai, called to tell me about a gathering at Barbara Friedman’s apartment. Barbara, a fellow Montrealer, had invited us to catch up, making it the perfect way to reintegrate into the city’s social scene.

As I entered her apartment, the scent of freshly baked challah enveloped me, along with the warmth of familiar faces and old friendships. One friend had even brought a guitar, and before long, we found ourselves singing together, including a delightful children’s song about Noah’s Ark. It was a sweet moment, especially since it was the Friday before Shabbat, a time for reflecting on the stories of our ancestors and the lessons they teach.

Surrounded by music and laughter, our lasting connections felt even more meaningful despite the years and distance that kept us apart. It was a beautiful reminder that some bonds, like tree roots, grow stronger over time, keeping us tied to the people and places we hold dear.

Miracle 4: Immersing in the European Cantors Convention in Budapest

On November 1st, I travelled from Israel to Hungary to attend the European Cantors Convention at the Rumbach Street Synagogue in Budapest. This place is special to me as it’s where my parents married during World War II. Being in that space, filled with personal and communal history, was incredibly moving.

The synagogue itself was a marvel—its walls steeped in history, yet echoing with the voices of the present. To capture the essence of the convention, I hired a local cameraman to document the event. It was an opportunity to listen to incredible cantors like Benny Meisels, Deborah Katcko-Grey, and Leah Frey Rabiner and reconnect with my family’s roots. With my cousins, I explored Budapest and uncovered our shared history, making this trip about more than just music—it was a journey into my family’s past.

Standing in the synagogue where my parents once stood, under the same ceiling that had witnessed so much joy and sorrow, I felt a deep connection to them and the generations before them. These interviews and experiences are the foundation of a documentary I’m working on about the convention. The event was filled with meaningful discussions and beautiful music; I can’t wait to share that with others.

Miracle 5: Rediscovering Our Family Heritage in Hungary

I had the opportunity to travel with Rachel, Tehila, her daughter, and Effy Fadida from Israel to the ancestral lands of our Hungarian Jewish forefathers. During our visit, we explored places like Tokay, Szabolcs, Kereztur, and Debrecen, accompanied by locals who helped us understand our family’s deep connections to these locations.

In Kereztur, we paid our respects at the resting place of Reb Shiele, a revered Hassidic Rebbe, and enjoyed kosher meals that felt like a link to our ancestors. The air was filled with the aroma of traditional Hungarian dishes, and as we gathered, the conversation flowed easily, full of stories of the past and hopes for the future. It was a meaningful experience to be in these places that still hold the echoes of our heritage, connecting us to a legacy of faith and community.

Our time in Tokay and Debrecen was remarkable. Visiting the Rebbe’s resting place at night felt almost dreamlike—a moment of quiet reflection after a day of exploring our roots. The stillness of the night, broken only by the rustling of leaves and the distant sound of a river, created an atmosphere of calm and peace. In Debrecen, we connected with relatives who survived the horrors of the Holocaust, their resilience serving as a strong reminder of the strength of our people. Our experience was even documented in the Hungarian Jewish Debrecen Community Bulletin, where I translated our visit into English.

Miracle 6: The Resilience of My Christmas Cactus

When I returned to Montreal, I was greeted by a small but significant miracle—my Christmas cactus was in full bloom. It had been cared for by a talented local plant expert while I was away, and seeing those bright blossoms felt like a symbol of hope and resilience. The vibrant pink flowers, standing against the gray of winter, were a reminder that life persists, even in the harshest conditions.

In a world that often feels dark, small lights—whether a blooming plant, a cherished friendship, or a connection to our heritage—remind us of the miracles surrounding us. Like the Maccabees, who overcame great odds, we can find strength and light in the most unexpected places.

As we move through this holiday season, may our homes be filled with peace, joy, and the warmth of these everyday miracles.

Am Yisrael chai—The People of Israel are alive! Am Yisrael thrives! And when Am Yisrael thrives, the world thrives!

Wishing you all a happy and meaningful holiday season.

With warmth,
Abigail

The Remarkable Stories of Mrs. G. and Aulcie at the Israel Film Festival in Montreal

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I recently attended the Israel Film Festival in Montreal, where two exceptional documentaries premiered. These films, “Mrs. G.” and “Aulcie,” tell the inspiring stories of individuals who overcame enormous challenges.

Mrs. G.: A Journey of Resilience and Triumph

“Mrs. G.” follows the journey of Lea Gottlieb, a Holocaust survivor who built the renowned Gottex swimsuit empire. Directed by Dalit Kimor, the film resonated with me as it mirrored the experiences of my parents and other immigrant Jewish families. Despite facing numerous obstacles, they leveraged their skills and business acumen to rebuild their lives after the Holocaust. Mrs. G.’s story reflects the struggles and triumphs of immigrant Jewish families in the face of overwhelming adversity.

Aulcie: From Struggles to Stardom

Similarly, “Aulcie” chronicles the inspiring story of Aulcie Perry, an African American basketball player who found fame and redemption in Israel. The documentary, directed by Dani Menkin, showcases Perry’s journey from a troubled past to becoming a beloved hero in Israel, leading the Maccabi team to international championship victories.

Unyielding Spirit

What captivated me about these documentaries was the opportunity to witness the strong spirit of individuals who refused to be defined by their circumstances. Both films offer an intimate look into the lives of real people who navigated significant challenges over the years. Despite challenging obstacles, these individuals demonstrate resilience, fortitude, and an unyielding determination to overcome inspiring barriers.

Their stories remind us of the human ability to overcome challenges and find hope in unexpected places. By sharing and celebrating these stories, we honour the strength of those who have faced hardship and come out stronger, inspiring future generations.

 

Highlights from the 37th Montreal World Film Festival

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The 37th Montreal World Film Festival transformed the city into a haven for film lovers. Over 400 films were screened from August 22 to September 2, offering something for everyone—from documentaries to dramas. The festival was more than just a showcase of films; it celebrated storytelling and its ability to ignite conversations and leave lasting impressions. This annual event highlights emerging talents and reaffirms cinema’s unique power to connect and inspire audiences.

Life Feels Good: A Story of Perseverance and the Human Spirit

Sometimes, a film leaves you thinking long after the credits roll, and Life Feels Good was one of those. This Polish film, directed by Piotr Piwowarski and based on a true story, received the Grand Prize, the Audience Award, and the Ecumenical Award. It tells the moving story of a boy with disabilities who, despite being misunderstood and underestimated for most of his life, discovers his intelligence and awareness in his thirties. The film’s portrayal of unwavering support from those around him beautifully captures the strength of perseverance and the resilience of the human spirit.

L’autre Maison/Another House: Family Dynamics and Caregiving

L’autre Maison (Another House) immerses us in the lives of two brothers grappling with the difficult reality of caring for their father, who is living with Alzheimer’s. The story’s emotional depth resonates with raw honesty, reflecting the filmmakers’ personal experiences in crafting the script. This authenticity enriches the film’s exploration of family dynamics and the complexities of caregiving, reminding us of the challenges many face in similar situations.

Yiddish: A Tale of Survival: Resilience Across Generations

The festival also gave me the opportunity to showcase my documentary, Yiddish: A Tale of Survival. This film tells the stories of three individuals committed to preserving the Yiddish language through theatre after the Holocaust. It was very meaningful to see how people from different backgrounds connected with the message of resilience and cultural preservation.

A Lasting Impression

What truly defined this year’s Montreal World Film Festival was the diversity of stories and perspectives. Each film offered a unique lens on the human experience, whether through deeply personal tales or broader societal reflections. Beyond entertainment, the festival reaffirmed cinema’s role in fostering empathy, understanding, and connection.